Never try to advise someone
who does not have wisdom.
You must escape from such people.
Understand what state a person is in before you speak to him.
If you do not do this, and you try to advise someone,
danger could be the result.
It would be like throwing stones at a mountain.
The stone that you throw would split
into many pieces and rebound back to hurt you.
Remember, if you try to advise someone
who does not have wisdom, it could backfire
and result in great danger for you.
It may result in your making enemies and being hated.
Muhammad Raheem Bawa Muhaiyaddeen (Ral.)
The Four Virtues- pg. 29